By Clare Green
This week’s news includes boys with gemstone names, girls named after a car, sweet British nicknames, and lot of men named Paul.
French parents have run into trouble for naming their son Ambre, the equivalent of Amber. Just like in English, it’s normally used for girls: it’s popular in France at the moment, making the Top 25 in 2016. But it has also been recorded for boys very occasionally – so it’s understandable that Ambre’s parents feel aggrieved that they have to fight a legal battle for his name.
Amber has been used as a boys’ name in the US too. From the 1970s through the 2000s, when Amber was at peak popularity for girls, it also charted for boys – sometimes more than 50 a year. There’s nothing inherently feminine about fossilized tree sap, and now that many Ambers are parents themselves, I can see it feeling fresh on a boy.
(Incidentally, the same thing is happening now for Ember, which is often seen as a successor to Amber. Over the last 10 years, since Ember has been rising in popularity for girls, it’s seen a bit of use for boys as well: 24 boys were named Ember in the US in 2017 vs. more than 1100 girls.)
The other gemstone name in the news belongs to a boy who hasn’t quite been born yet. Model Slick Woods (birth name Simone Thompson) plans to use Saphir for her son, who’s due this month. It’s a nod to Sapphire, the birth month for September. What do you think of this pared-down version?
The issue of gender and names as a one-way street, with girls getting boys’ names but not vice versa, is explored by Joe Pinsker in a new piece in The Atlantic.
Would you name your baby after your car model? I drive a Micra, so I guess I could slip Mike or Micah in as a middle name. Other Toyota models that are good to go as names include Noah, Camry, Levin, Avalon, and perhaps even Alphard. You’ll find even more car name ideas in this blog post.
Let’s just see it as one of those stories that makes life a bit more interesting. First the mother felt pressured by her older children into calling her daughter Delphine. Then she followed her heart and decided to go with Dolly instead. Then she thought it needed a longer full name, so she changed it to Dorothy. Then she decided it didn’t, so Dolly it was again – and has been for eight years and counting.
If you’re struggling at any stage, you can always seek the wisdom of your fellow berries in the Nameberry forums, or ask the Name Sage.
And if you love British nicknames like Dolly, you’ll appreciate the naming style of celebrity couple Robbie Williams and Ayda Field. Their daughter Theodora “Teddy” Rose and son Charlton “Charlie” Valentine have just become big siblings to Colette “Coco” Josephine.
Have they left anyone off the Paul of Fame? Have I used the word Paul enough yet?
If Paul isn’t quite the name for you, you could try spicing it up with an international variation, like Pol or Pavel, or a name with a similar feel.
Speaking of songwriters, what’s your favorite name from a song? In this list of song-inspired names, the author wanted to name her son Cash, as in Johnny Cash. Her husband vetoed it, but they compromised on Jackson, after one of Cash’s songs.
If you’re the type of person who marks name data releases on the calendar (I know it’s not just me), put a big red circle around September 21 – that’s when the England and Wales 2017 baby name stats are due to be published.