This week’s news includes gemstone and virtue names for boys, reasons to choose a popular name, fresh names from the 1990s (yes, really), and Boomer Phelps’s little brother.
Coming up this weekend is the Lunar New Year. Whether or not you’re celebrating the start of the year of the Earth Dog, you might find inspiration in these names relating to good fortune and dogs. And because good luck is such a common theme in names (who wouldn’t want it for their child?), here are even more adventurous names that mean luck.
The most popular names in each decade will be familiar to anyone who keeps an eye on name trends, but what struck me was the author’s reaction to reading them. Faces and memories popped into her mind:
“My friends from school days: Ashley, Jennifer, Amanda and Sarah. My well-seasoned supervisors as I entered the workforce as a millennial: David, Linda and Deborah. Many of my millennial friends married an Andrew or Joshua. The precious little old ladies at church: Betty and Patricia. My niece, Emma.”
It’s a reminder that names aren’t just words on a list. They’re evocative, they link us to our culture and time, and they show us to be part of our cohort – or stand out from it.
Here’s another example of a name that fits in: in this essay, Amy Wang reflects on the four letters of name her parents gave her. (Her middle name is the letter M.) Along with the usual advantages of a short name – easy to spell, quick to fill in forms – she believes it reflects her parents’ hopes that she would assimilate into American culture. It also raises the issue of mismatched sibling names: her sister has a Chinese name, and Amy doesn’t. So if you’re worried one of your children will feel left out because their name has a different number of syllables from their siblings, know that families can cope with much greater name disparities.
Speaking of regions, anglophiles rejoice! The regional name data for England and Wales in 2016 have just been released, so you can compare parents’ preferences in London and Yorkshire, or Wales and the West Midlands. That’s something to keep us going until the 2017 data come out this autumn.
This is a sign, according to this article in the Canberra Times, of the limits we put on gender: girls can be anything, boys should conform. I don’t think it’s as simple as that, and I’d definitely dispute the author’s complaint that no boys are named after virtues or precious jewels.
While they’re not as common as Grace or Ruby, there are absolutely virtue and gem names out there for boys. Justice and Sincere make the US top 1000, and there are more virtue names that might be headed that way. Among the gemstones, there are several that lean male or unisex, like Jasper and Malachite, for parents who want to use them.
Enter Beckett! The Phelps’s second son, who was born earlier this week, certainly has a more mainstream name than his brother. Dare I say it’s perhaps a slightly disappointing choice for name nerds? (As if Phelps and his family care.) But both names have a surname feel and punchy consonants. The brothers also share initials and sensible middle names: Boomer’s is Robert, Beckett’s is Richard.
It’s also worth remembering that 20 years ago, Beckett was just as rare as Boomer is now. Most adults today wouldn’t have known any Becketts growing up, so for many it still feels fresh and undiscovered.